Archives for May 2014

Remembering Dr. Maya Angelou: One of America’s Greatest Treasures

Yesterday, I learned of Dr. Maya Angelou’s passing en route to my children’s doctor’s appointments. As I schlepped toward the subway with two kids in tow, I got several back-to-back text messages from friends and family alerting me of her death.

After being in the pediatrician’s office for what seemed like an eternity and just being a busy mom in the evening, I didn’t have a chance to write about the prolific poet and author. In this fast-paced 24/7 news cycle, people may be on to the next big story, but I’d be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge Dr. Angelou’s legacy today.

I remember reading her autobiography, “I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings,” in elementary school like so many other young African-American girls and connecting to her story in ways I had never connected before. In fact, that book single-handedly made me fall in love with reading biographies and autobiographies (my favorite book genre).

Throughout the years, I’ve found myself quoting lines from her poems, speeches, books, etc.  Who hasn’t repeated one of her most famous quotes, “When a person shows you who they are, believe them the first time?” She had such a special way of making the most profound concepts seem so simple.

The late thought-provoking  activist and teacher’s wisdom will live on in our hearts and through her brilliant work forever. She was indeed a phenomenal woman!

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Here are a few more popular Dr. Angelou quotes (via ABC News):

“If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love.”

“The truth is, no one of us can be free until everybody is free.”

“I’m a woman Phenomenally.”

“Nothing can dim the light which shines from within.”

“Nothing will work unless you do.”

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.”

“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

“Everything in the universe has a rhythm, everything dances.”

“While one may encounter many defeats, one must not be defeated.”

“My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return.”

What’s your favorite Dr. Maya Angelou quote?

Gabrielle Union Shares Summer Beauty Tips as the New Face of Philips Sonicare

No matter how we style our hair or what clothes we wear, a gorgeous smile is always the best accessory. That’s why Philips Sonicare and Philips Zoom! has tapped actress Gabrielle Union as their new face to help drive home that point.

Known for her beautiful smile, the “Think Like A Man Too” and “Being Mary Jane” star, 41, has teamed up with the popular oral healthcare brand to help encourage women to feel confident about their looks. As part of their partnership, the bride-to-be is sharing a few beauty tips for the summer.

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Check them out below:

Stay hydrated: They say you should drink 8 glasses of water a day, but I drink double that – a FULL gallon! Aside from the obvious – staying hydrated – it keeps my skin, hair and nails healthy and keeps my metabolism revved.

Feel good about your smile: A healthy, white smile is an essential part of my year round beauty routine. It’s a great accessory to any outfit and helps make a lasting first impression. I brush with Philips Sonicare DiamondClean to keep my teeth and gums healthy, and my dentist whitens my smile with Philips Zoom either in the office or with convenient take-home trays.

Go natural: On set at “Being Mary Jane,” we’ve been experimenting with this fresh look for my character that has become my go-to for warmer weather: A heavier brow (it makes you look more youthful!), a nude lip and just mascara for the eyes. If I do more eye makeup for nighttime, I avoid black and stick to shades of brown for a more naturally dramatic look.

Keep hair simple with bold accents: I live in Miami and my show shoots in Atlanta, which are both extremely hot and humid places in the summer. For a cute and low maintenance hairstyle, I take it back to 1986 with braids, or I put my hair up in a simple topknot. A top knot is also great for going out or a big event – I pair it with a cat eye and a bold red lip.

Confidence is key: It’s so important to feel confident about who you are and not to succumb to unrealistic expectations. I gave that up a while ago. I try to keep healthy habits like exercising and eating fruits and veggies – I’m really into juicing daily – but I don’t put pressure on myself to fit a certain mold. If you’re 5, 10, 20 pounds more than you want to be, it’s okay. Just feel confident about being YOU!

Do you use teeth whitening treatments to keep your smile bright?

Product Review: Olay Fresh Effects Dew Over Hydrating Gel

When I think of my first beauty experiences, Oil of Olay comes to mind.

I’ve been using the classic skincare brand ever since my mom introduced the facial moisturizer to me in middle school. The simple white and black bottle always had a luxe appeal despite it being a drugstore buy. Although I didn’t need any anti-aging wrinkle-prevention creams at the time, the quintessential moisturizer always rescued my skin from dryness.

That’s why I was super excited to try the brand’s new Fresh Effects Dew Over Hydrating Gel Moisturizer. The fun and inviting packaging caught my eye, as well as the commercials.

olay-fresh-effectsOlay Fresh Effects Dew Over Hydrating Gel Moisturizer available here, $14

The hydrating gel-based moisturizer is a departure from the creamy lotion that original Olay fans have come to love. But, change is good. The light-weight gel is cool and calming leaving behind a refreshed feel, making it ideal for the warmer months. Plus, it’s oil-free and won’t clog pores. In fact, thanks to its powder formula, it actually absorbs excess oil! While the scent of white tea and honeysuckle is a wee bit off-putting, it doesn’t make it deal-breaker.

I never thought that I would find a facial moisturizer that could potentially replace my beloved original Oil of Olay, but this just might be the one!

Do you use gel moisturizers?

Fashion News: Chanel Iman Joins the Gap Factory Store Campaign

Chanel Iman might be most known for being a sultry Victoria’s Secret model, but the fresh-faced beauty is now tapping into her girl-next-door allure by teaming up with GAP Factory Store.

Kicking off today, the model, 23, is joining celebrity stylist E! TV personality George Kotsiopoulos for the “Exclusively Styled” campaign. Together they will showcase some of the hottest summer styles and trends from the discounted retailer.

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Check out this behind-the-scenes look from their recent shoot:

What trends are you looking forward to trying this summer?

Special Offer: ChicBusyMom & Cocotique’s ‘May Is for Mothers’ Beauty Box

Although Mother’s Day was last Sunday, ChicBusyMom and Cocotique are celebrating mom all month long!

The mom/lifestyle blogger has partnered with the popular beauty box subscription service to bring some of the best buys for us BGs directly to our doorsteps with the “May is for Mothers” offering.

Specially curated for women of color, subscribers can test out beauty goodies including: CURLS Defining Moments Curl Release Serum, BADGER Peppermint & Tea Tree Foot Balm, HARVEY PRINCE Hello Fragrance, NAKED BAR Pit Cream Natural Deodorant, Natural Style by FUBU Curl Defining Gel, Natural Style by FUBU Deep Conditioner & Co-Wash, Natural Style by FUBU Curl Elongator and Men’s Natural Style by FUBU 3-in-1 Cleansing Wash.

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Lucky for you guys, ChicBusyMom & Cocotique are giving my readers 10% off your first deluxe beauty box subscription from Cocotique using the code: BOX10 until May 21st.

Do you currently subscribe to any monthly beauty box services?

Let’s #StopHIVTogether: Two Moms’ Inspiring Stories

Recent comments in the news regarding Magic Johnson’s HIV status prove that the stigma and lack of education surrounding this disease still exists.

Last Friday, I had the opportunity to participate in a conference call facilitated by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) to learn more about the disease, as well as ways to join them in their Let’ Stop HIV Together campaign.

During the call, I had the chance to hear two incredibly heartfelt stories from mothers living with HIV. Being a mom of two, coupled with the fact that the call took place only two days prior to Mother’s Day made their stories even more impactful.

Michelle, a Brooklyn resident shared her story first. Her accounts of surviving child sexual abuse and domestic abuse before being diagnosed with HIV back in 1991 were heartbreaking. But, hearing her divulge that her baby (at the time) daughter, Raven, was also infected was shattering.

MichelleAlthough she and her daughter, who is now 22, have suffered many trials and tribulations throughout the years, they currently stand together in the fight against this disease by educating society through raising awareness about getting testing and having access to the proper treatment.

Watch Michelle’s story:

While Michelle’s story was moving, for some reason Masonia’s really resonated with me. Her candidness and transparency was refreshing. She spoke openly about her vigilance in getting tested frequently after becoming sexually active. However, in 2010 due to a lapse in health insurance, she was unable to get her annual test. Unfortunately, after a routine gynecological visit, she received the devastating news that she was HIV positive despite being in a long-term “committed” relationship. Not only did she find out that she had contracted the disease, but that she was also pregnant.

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Knowing first-hand the physical and mental struggles associated with pregnancy compounded with having HIV and the uncertainty of your unborn child’s health, almost seems too much for any woman to bear. Luckily, her baby tested negative for the disease. Despite her status, Masonia decided to also use her diagnosis to help educate people about the disease and encourage preventative measures.

Watch Masonia’s story:

Hearing these two brave women’s stories has definitely enlightened me. It’s also motivated me to help spread the facts about HIV. Since the disease is disproportionately affecting our communities, it’s our responsibility to erase the stigma, as well as educate in an effort to prevent and ultimately eradicate this disease.

Check out these stats from the CDC:

* At the end of 2010, one in four people living with HIV in the United States were Black/African American and Hispanic/Latino women

*One in four people living with HIV infection in the United States are women.

*Most new HIV infections in women are from heterosexual contact (84%).

*Only about half of women who are diagnosed with HIV are in care, and even fewer (4 in 10) have the virus under control.

*All pregnant women should be screened for HIV as early as possible during each pregnancy.

*Women with HIV who take antiretroviral medication during pregnancy as recommended can reduce the risk of transmitting HIV to their babies to less than 1%

Get involved and follow the #StopHIVTogether campaign on Facebook and Twitter!

Disclosure: This post is made possible by support from the Let’s Stop HIV Together campaign. All opinions are my own.

Do you get tested for HIV annually? 

Thirty-Four: The Most Beautiful Age Ever!

A few weeks ago, I came across an article in PEOPLE magazine’s “Most Beautiful” issue that caught my eye. No, it wasn’t the piece on the stunning cover girl (Lupita Nyong’o) that grabbed my attention, but a spread featuring five celebrity women (Pink, Dania Ramirez, Stacy Keibler, Rachel Leigh Cook, and Laura Prepon) with one thing in common—their age, 34.

Since turning 34 less than two weeks ago, the article and its accompanying photographs were especially timely, inspiring and relatable for me.

According to the piece, a recent study suggests that thirty-four is the age when women feel the best about their bodies.

Seeing my fellow 34-year-old counterparts baring their bodies in celebration of their feminine confidence was refreshing. Admittedly, I’ve struggled with self-image issues like many women throughout the years. But, after birthing two babies I have never been so content with my body. While I’m aware that I need to exercise more to maintain a healthy lifestyle, I no longer beat myself up over certain physical shortcomings.

I’m not sure if I came to this acceptance and appreciation for my body simply because I have two children, one of which was born less than a year ago, or the fact that I’m 34 and finally coming into my own.  Actually, I’m sure this mind shift can be attributed more to being a mom the second time around. Watching your body transform and ultimately perform its greatest task is nothing short of amazing.

No matter what the underlying reason is for my newfound confidence, I’m going to cherish every minute of it because 35 is right around the corner!

BGG-bdayMe celebrating my 34th birthday with friends at Pio Pio in Manhattan. By the way, I’m wearing Too Faced’s “Melted” lip color in ruby that I wrote about last week.

Are you completely content with your body? If you’re over 30, were you happier with your body in your 20s?