Church 2.0: Spirituality, Social Media and Mobile Technology

Like many little brown girls growing up on the Southside of Chicago, I was raised in the church. While my family and I didn’t go every single Sunday, we went enough for me to remember it vividly.

I recall being bored and passing the time by counting down the minutes until the service was over. Now that I’m an adult with an attention span that can withstand a lengthy sermon, I actually enjoy going to church.

park-slope-churchThe beautiful exterior of a Baptist church in my Park Slope (Brooklyn) neighborhood.

Church is no longer that boring, hours-long event I recall enduring as a child. It’s now an energetic, interactive spiritual soul fest! Thanks to technology, many places of worship are making it easier for its members to receive and partake in the ministry.

For example, gone are the days of not knowing a song and sheepishly humming along (I was guilty of that many Sundays). Now, many churches have song lyrics conveniently displayed on projector screens for the entire congregation to see and sing in unison. And, the technological advances don’t end there. In recent years, it’s not uncommon for large mega-churches to use social media and mobile technology as an extension of the service, but the education is still needed for smaller congregations.

“As we move toward a more digital age, I noticed that smaller and medium size churches just weren’t catching on and needed education on these technological solutions,” says Jason Caston, the Digital Platforms and Innovations Specialist at the Potter’s House/T.D. Jakes Ministries, and the creator of the iChurch Method.

In many cases, it’s not just the lack of education that’s hindering churches’ social media and mobile prowess, but the manpower. “There’s a lack of staff. There’s just not enough staff to work with social media, mobile, different technology, so they do what they can,” suggests Caston.

Since research suggests that we BGs and guys use micro-blogging sites like Twitter more than our counterparts, it’s not hard to understand why some of our churches are starting to embrace mobile and social media outreach. However, not all churches have been as receptive to the concept of implementing mobile technology and social media into their congregations.

“I worked with a large ministry and one of the church leaders thought that my iChurch method of implementing social media, mobile technology, online experience, etc. was trying to replace the church,” recalls Caston.

“There was a huge generational gap and disconnect because they had been doing things their way for 30-40 years. But, I had to explain that technology is there to enhance the church, expand the reach and connect with more people, not replace it.”

As most of us become even more connected to our mobile devices, coupled with our insatiable social media appetite, it’s only logical that our spirituality will reflect that cultural shift. But, let’s just hope that posting selfies from the pulpit won’t get in the way of actual preaching!

Here are four easy ways to incorporate mobile technology into your church’s program:

– Create a hashtag for your church to make it easy for followers to find all scriptures, updates, pictures and other information pertaining to your place of worship.
– To increase engagement, ask questions such as:  “What’s your favorite book of the Bible?”
– Tweet stand-out scriptures from sermons.
– Download apps for daily inspiration.

Does your church utilize social media as an extension of the service? How do you use technology to enhance your spiritual life?

Bridal Bliss: 5 Beauty Must-Haves

Now that summer is officially here, that means wedding season is underway!

Whether you’re a bride-to-be or bridesmaid, you’ll want to put your best face forward on that special day. However, due to the stress and anxiety of either saying “I do,” or serving as your BFF’s or sister’s personal bridal assistant, keeping your skin in check leading up to the big day and during the occasion can be a job in of itself.

With the help  of a few good beauty products you can ensure that your face will look fab for the bridal album, and of course all those countless wedding day selfies!

Check out these picks to keep you looking picture-perfect:

Pre-nuptial prep

clarisonic-mia-2Clarisonic Mia 2 Cleansing Brush available here, $149. This nifty beauty device is a cult fave because its pulsating bristles easily slough away dead skin leaving behind a radiant glow that’s essential for wedding day snapshots.

glo-teethGLO Solo Teeth Whitening available here, $45.”Say cheese” with ease thanks to this innovative whitening system. Skip the strips and trays and get several shades whiter teeth in as little as two weeks!

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RapidLash Eyelash & Eyebrow Enhancing Serum available here, $30. Forgo falsies and bat your lashes with confidence by using this lengthening serum.

Big-Day Beauty

By-Terry-Cheek-to-CheekBy Terry Cheek to Cheek Water Color Blush  available here, $48. You’ll be a blushing bride with this natural cherry-colored flush to the cheeks. And, don’t worry about whether  it will suit your skin tone  because the versatile shade complements most complexions.

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Skindinavia Makeup Finishing Spray Oil Control available here, $29. Keep shiny skin at bay with this oil-absorbing spray for a camera-ready look.

Are you going to be a bride or bridesmaid this summer? If not, are you attending any weddings this season? 

Protect Your Peepers: Contact Lenses that Serve as a Sun Defense

Most of us know the importance of using sunscreen, wide-brimmed hats and sunglasses to protect our skin from harmful UV rays. But, I bet you didn’t know that contact lenses can also serve as a barrier for our eyes.

Acuvue Brand Contact Lenses is the only major brand to offer a complete line of UV-blocking lenses. In fact, their OASYS® lenses provide the highest level of protection against 96% of UV-A rays and 99% of UV-B rays that reach the cornea.

Since I currently wear eyeglasses and am looking to make the switch to contact lenses, this is wonderful news! I’m all about protecting all parts of my body from the sun, especially during the summer when my exposure is heightened.

acuvueVisit www.acuvue.com for more information

Check out these sun safety tips from NYC-based optometrist Dr. Susan Resnick to help you have a healthy summer:

  • Wear wraparound sunglasses with UV-blocking lenses
  • Be wary of cloudy days – you can get just as much UV exposure when it is cloudy, as you can on a bright, clear day
  • Be cautious around water and snow, as reflections from both can bounce up and into the eye
  • The sun is most dangerous for the eyes when you least expect it – in the morning and in the evening – when the sun is in direct line with the eye

Do you wear contacts or eyeglasses? How do you protect yourself from UV rays?

Tupac’s Lyrics Inspire Broadway’s New Musical ‘Holler If Ya Hear Me’

Yesterday would’ve been Tupac (2Pac) Shakur’s 43rd birthday.

It’s hard to believe that I was only 16 when the iconic rapper, poet, activist and actor was shot and killed in Las Vegas. Fast forward 18 years and fans like me are still being captivated by his prolific lyrics. This time not just on our iPods, but on Broadway.

This past Saturday I was invited to see, “Holler If Ya Hear Me,” a musical inspired by the late rapper’s lyrics. Being that I’ve been a fan of Tupac’s music since I was a teen, I was excited to see the show. Admittedly,  at first I was a bit hesitant when I saw the commercial featuring the show’s star, Saul Williams. Initially, I thought the musical was going to be about Tupac’s life; so I felt Williams was an interesting choice to play the part. Luckily, prior to the show I did my research and realized that the show wouldn’t be based on Tupac at all, just his lyrics.

Holler-If-Ya-Hear-Me-Musical

Directed by Kenny Leon, the man behind Broadway’s hit “Motown,” “Holler If Ya Hear Me,” is an all too familiar story—a man (Williams) tempted to go back to a life of crime after the death of a friend cut down by gun violence. The story also includes sub-plots about family, love, change, race, hope and friendship. While the storyline may have been a bit average, the way in which the plot weaved in with some of his greatest songs was nothing short of brilliant.

Fans of Tupac know just how versatile his work was and the show exemplified that talent. With songs such as “Keep Ya Head Up,” “Dear Mama,” and “Life Goes On,” viewers who may have been unfamiliar with his lyrics were given a glimpse into his inspiring mindset. While lyrics from “Hail Mary” and “If I Die 2night” provided a look into his more emotional, darker side. And, his political and even light-hearted views were showcased in songs like the show’s namesake, “Holler If Ya Hear Me” and the playful, “I Get Around.”

Broadway veteran actress Tonya Pinkins, along with the show’s leads: Saul Williams, Christopher Jackson, Saycon Sengbloh, as well as the supporting cast were incredibly charismatic and energetic making the show entertaining from start to finish. At times, it felt like a concert!

Although we’ll never know if  Tupac would’ve approved of his work being featured on the Great White Way, we can rest assured that his mom, Afeni Shakur, gives it her stamp of approval since she serves as one of the show’s producers.

The show is a great testament to just how much of a cultural influence and impact his music had on an entire generation. Mesmerizing performances and legendary music make “Holler If Ya Hear Me,” a must-see for those looking to take a nostalgic trip back in time when Tupac’s music reigned supreme; to me, it still does.

“Holler If Ya Hear Me,” is currently in previews and officially opens June 19 at the Palace Theater in New York City. Tickets are on sale  here!

Have you seen “Holler If Ya Hear Me?” If so, what are your thoughts? If not, what’s your favorite Tupac song?

Style Review: Vionic Sandals

Now with the official start of summer only a couple of weeks away, it’s time to slip into some stylish sandals!

Each year I buy several pairs of inexpensive, yet trendy sandals but they usually leave my feet in pain. Basically, they last a season and then I’m on to the next. Since I don’t have a high arch, it’s difficult finding pairs that don’t hurt my feet, pocketbook or compromise style. Enter Vionic sandals.

This innovative brand has an “orthaheel” technology that provides stability, support and most importantly, comfort. At first, I was reluctant about testing out a pair of their sandals because I feared they’d look like something out of my granny’s closet. Let’s face it, whenever the words “ortho” and “shoe/sandal” are mentioned in the same sentence it usually isn’t a good look. Luckily, once I tried them not only were they comfy, but actually cute! Plus, they seem to contour with the shape of my feet, which is unlike any sandal I’ve ever worn.

Since I’m a mom, these have become my go-to weekend sandals for running errands and taking family walks. They’re easy to slip on and can work with just about any casual ensemble. Now if only they could create some comfortable, sexy heels or stilettos!

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 I’m wearing the “Santiago” leather sandals and are available here, $99

What’s the most important factor when it comes to purchasing sandals? Price, style or comfort? Unlike heels, are you willing to compromise comfort for stylish sandals? Share your #solestory on Instagram!

Quench Your Curls: 6 Moisturizing & Conditioning Sprays for Natural Hair

We BGs who rock hairstyles that show off our natural curls, waves, kinks and coils know that hydrating sprays are essential to achieving some of our favorite looks.

Although I stopped relaxing my hair in 2007, it wasn’t until last year that I finally started using hair spritzers and leave-in conditioning sprays to help  enhance, moisturize and maintain my curls. They can tame frizz, define curls, as well as provide a bit of shine. Plus, now that summer’s around the corner these sprays are perfect for overall rejuvenating and refreshing tresses in hot and humid weather.

Check out these picks to help quench your curls:

Ouidad-Botanical-Boost-Spray-In-Daily-ConditionerOuidad Botanical Boost Moisture Infusing & Refreshing Spray (8.5 oz) available here, $17

The-Juices-Nourishing-Herbal-Leave-Ins

“The Juices” Nourishing Herbal Leave-Ins (8 oz) available here, $14

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Carol’s Daughter Black Vanilla Leave-In Conditioner available here, $11

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Quenched Curls Curls Refresher and Moisturizer available here, $16

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Karen’s Body Beautiful Hair Blossom Moisture Mist (8.5 oz) available here, $16

Do you use leave-in conditioner sprays and mists to hydrate your strands?

 

7 Stylish Studs & Ear Cuffs

Now that my baby boy is  almost 9 months old, my beloved hoop earrings have been forced to take a backseat.

Like most babies, his curious nature has resulted in broken earrings and painful, pulled lobes. So until he no longer finds my classic gold hoops fascinating, I’ll be opting for more baby-friendly styles like cute cuffs and eye-catching studs to adorn my ears.

Check out some of these buys:

Spike-Ear-Cuff-24BCBG Max Azria Spike Ear Cuff available here, $24

Jennifer-Zeuner-Love-Studs

Jennifer Zeuner “Love” Earrings available here, $132

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Eddie Borgo Pave Crystal Cone Single Ear Cuff available here, $100

Betsey-Johnson-Camera-Stud

Betsey Johnson Camera Stud Earrings available here, $30

Freida-Rothman-Studs

Freida Rothman ‘Femme’ Maltese Cross Stud Earrings available here, $65

Steve-Madden-Faceted-Bead-Ear-Cuffs

Steve Madden “White” Faceted Bead Ear Cuffs available here, $18

Alexis-Bittar-Link-Stud

Alexis Bittar ‘Elements – Jardin Papillon’ Chain Link Stud Earrings available here, $75

Do you prefer studs or hoop earrings?